From Healing to Wholing ✨ Ode to the past while being present...(7 years)

There’s a point on the healing path when it’s not about fixing anymore.

When you’ve faced your shadows, sat with your pain, and learned how to breathe through the fire.

After losing Grant, I thought I had to start over — to somehow heal again. But what I’ve come to understand is that loss doesn’t mean you go back to zero.

It’s an invitation to love yourself in ways you never have before.

The tools I once used to mend my wounds became the same ones that helped me hold my heart through grief — breath, presence, forgiveness, compassion.

They became the bridge between who I was and who I’m becoming.

There are still moments of doubt. Still days where the ache catches me off guard.

But underneath it all, there’s a steady truth — I am whole. Even when it hurts. Even when I don’t have all the answers.

This season is about wholing — not healing.

It’s about letting my love for Grant live on through the way I live, create, and soften into this new world I continue building.

To anyone navigating loss: you’re not broken. You’re becoming.

And your heart knows the way home. 🤍